Shortly after the second marriage, step parenting, the development usually means warm and friendly interaction with the child. Parents should not try, children in a rush emotional proximity or try, practice them the parental authority over. Let yourselves grow and the relations of the mutual attention and affection gotten established, before step parents try, near to the children. Into the beginning, children may not do with their comfortable step parents and become bad alone with them. This is to be tried the time for the family group of activities instead of, the children in one on one activities. Use this time, around more over the child hobby and interests and talents and abilities share. Later, if the loans more strongly nascently, one- one-time becomes more welcome.

Step parents May supervise their children know, like their daily routine, where itself, but should the children, their friends and except-school activities try, not too curiously into the soul life of the child. Emotional proximity possibly not welcome, until the child is ready, for it. Until then,Step Mother / father have themselves step with control of children homework to make and try, them be helpful and them help, with their everyday life. The best way, around stepparent is first emotional by Kinder-Eltern-und a distant the work and non-threatening relationship for approximately two years. After this step by step into parents somewhat more can in the care of children and the direct rule attitude. Marriage partners should shift by agreement over the role, support each other mutually and constantly display family status consent, if one stepparent considerably and with children.